The fear of rejection sometimes most, if not greater for men than women. This fear of getting dumped by a Tante Girang Kaya they care for are very often stop people from forming strong relationships early, they will delay to be sure. If the relationship has ended, it is useful to know how to get more than the girl, like you might be in much pain after you realize he is not one. Make sure you get rid of people like him as a constant reminder and photo CDs. Give them back, they put away safely or take what you can to charity shops. If you have any joint debt or bank account, something like that directly. I'm not saying your ex will clean up the account, but another reason that you should keep in touch so get them closed.Put yourself first and this Tante Girang Kaya firmly in the past, however uncomfortable that may be. He was in the past, so let him stay there. Keep your days full occupied. See more of your friends, join a gym and get in shape, playing ball, was involved in a new sport, take a course. Just do something to keep your mind busy. Whatever you do, do not mope around feeling sorry for yourself. Allow yourself a few days to grieve, then give yourself a kick and move, one day at a time.